Handle Children Victims of Violence

Basically every parent would love their children. But in the face of the child's behavior, it is not uncommon parent lost patience so do not hesitate to use violence. The way it used as a form of punishment that can be expected for their deterrent effect.

Here are some forms of violence against children that you should avoid:

1. Physical abuse: any act of violence is in direct contact with the body or physical, whether that does not leave a mark or trace, such as hitting, slapping, pinching, and pulling.
2. Verbal abuse: a form of language communication in the form of words in which an element of harassment or humiliation, as roughly speaking, barked, barked, giving inappropriate designation (labeling).
3. Sexual violence: such conduct molestation, sodomy, and incest.

Child abuse should be avoided by any means, because of its impact on the children is as follows:
• Impact psychic: violence can cause mental disturbance or psychological condition. Children can experience depression, trauma, phobias, and sexual disorders.
• Physical effects: can cause injuries, such as bruises and can cause a disease or trauma to a specific area of ​​the body.
• Social impact: children victims of violence can suffer ostracism by the community around it, it can even lead to designations (nicknames) just inappropriate for children, such as "child rape".

How to cope with the impact of violence against children?
1. Keep the child from the environment or circumstances that cause the child to recall the violent events that had befallen him.
2. Accompany children in some of the activities he does.
3. Create an atmosphere that is safe and comfortable for your child.
4. Parents should be wary of those who are around her.
5. Explain to your child about the meaning of violence, by telling him that it should not allow anyone to use violence, particularly against children.
6. Involving children in a variety of positive activities, such as extracurricular activities at school.
7. Activates the right brain with a variety of art activities such as drawing, painting, and playing music to be a form of healing for traumatized children.
8. Using a specific psychological therapy if needed.
9. Recognize fear that your child may experience and be sensitive to anything that feels.
10. Parents should not leave their children alone without anyone watching her closest and trustworthy.

To avoid your child's attitude toward violence, identify the factors that cause violence in children:

• Internal factors: factors derived from the child's personal environment, such as family dysfunction (parental role that does not work or is not running as it should), the stress experienced by families (birth of children who are not expected, as well as parents who were laid off), the stress experienced children (children of different conditions, or children who have different mental development).
• External factors: factors derived from the environment around the child, such as economic factors (the most common factors), social factors (economic inequality, inadequate housing, high crime rates), social media factors (the rise of television and the development of internet which contain elements of violence, so that it becomes a model for the behavior of the community).